Wednesday, June 04, 2025
As a leader, you’re expected to stay positive and bring the energy.
But what about when you need it?
No one talks about this enough.
Even the best leaders have days when they feel flat or uninspired.
The difference?
Great leaders don’t wait for inspiration.
They practice it.
Here are three habits that help you stay self-inspired and optimistic, no matter what’s going on:
1. Own It
Optimism starts with ownership.
You don’t have to love your circumstances.
But when you own them, you’re not stuck.
Own your mindset. Own your results.
When things go well, celebrate the role you played.
When they don’t own what needs to change, and go again.
Ownership builds energy and drive.
2. Talk to Yourself (Not Just Your Team)
Self-talk shapes your energy, confidence, and presence.
What you say to yourself matters.
Instead of “This is going to be a mess,” try:
“I’ve led through harder times than this. I’ve got this.”
“I am positive we can make this even better.”
“I’m a strong leader with a great team.”
3. Stay Forward Focused
Inspiration fades when you're stuck in what just happened.
Lift your head and ask, what’s next? Where’s the opportunity?
Forward energy creates forward momentum.
Only look back for the information you need to move forward.
And here’s something most people forget.
When you need inspiration, go give it.
Encourage someone. Celebrate their effort. Share a small win.
There’s a reason people say, “You can’t keep what you don’t give away.”
It works for inspiration, too.
You’re not just leading others.
You’re leading yourself.
And when you fuel yourself and others, you stay self-inspired, even in the hard moments.
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